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The FLAMES Game: How to Play and What Your Result Means

A nostalgic image of a pen and a piece of paper with the word FLAMES and hearts drawn on it.

Long before dating apps and love calculators, there was FLAMES. This simple pen-and-paper game was a staple for schoolchildren and teenagers, a fun and innocent way to predict the future of a relationship with a crush. Our love calculator includes a digital version of this nostalgic game, but what does each letter actually mean?

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How Does FLAMES Work?

The game is quite simple. You take two names and cancel out all the common letters. For example, with "ROBERT" and "BRENDA," the common letters are R, B, and E. After removing them, the remaining letters are O, T (from Robert) and N, D, A (from Brenda). That's a total of 5 remaining letters.

You then take the word "FLAMES" and count through the letters, using the number you calculated (in this case, 5). You start at 'F' as 1, 'L' as 2, and so on, wrapping around. The letter you land on is eliminated. You continue this process with the remaining letters until only one is left. That final letter is your result!

Breaking Down the FLAMES Results

Each letter in FLAMES represents a different type of relationship. Here's what your result means:

Whether you get Love or Enemy, remember that FLAMES is all about having fun. The real future of any relationship is written by the choices you make, not by a game!

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Founder & Editor

Hi, I'm Jig D, the Founder and Developer of the Love Calculator. With a passion for creating engaging online experiences, I built this website to offer a fun, shareable, and easy-to-use tool for anyone curious about compatibility. My goal is to provide a moment of entertainment and connection for visitors.