The FLAMES Game: How to Play and What Your Result Means

Long before dating apps and love calculators, there was FLAMES. This simple pen-and-paper game was a staple for schoolchildren and teenagers, a fun and innocent way to predict the future of a relationship with a crush. Our love calculator includes a digital version of this nostalgic game, but what does each letter actually mean?
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The game is quite simple. You take two names and cancel out all the common letters. For example, with "ROBERT" and "BRENDA," the common letters are R, B, and E. After removing them, the remaining letters are O, T (from Robert) and N, D, A (from Brenda). That's a total of 5 remaining letters.
You then take the word "FLAMES" and count through the letters, using the number you calculated (in this case, 5). You start at 'F' as 1, 'L' as 2, and so on, wrapping around. The letter you land on is eliminated. You continue this process with the remaining letters until only one is left. That final letter is your result!
Breaking Down the FLAMES Results
Each letter in FLAMES represents a different type of relationship. Here's what your result means:
- F is for Friendship: This is a positive result! It suggests a strong, stable bond built on trust and mutual respect. While it might not be a passionate romance (at least not yet), it indicates a genuine connection that can last a lifetime. All great love stories have a foundation of great friendship.
- L is for Love: The result everyone hopes for! This signifies a deep, romantic connection. It suggests strong feelings, emotional intimacy, and the potential for a classic love story. It’s a sign of powerful chemistry and mutual admiration.
- A is for Affection: This result points to a sweet and caring relationship. There's a definite fondness and warmth between the two of you. It may be a budding romance or a deeply caring friendship that could grow into more. Affection is the gentle side of love.
- M is for Marriage: This is the ultimate long-term prediction. It suggests that your connection is so strong and stable that it has the potential to lead to a lifelong commitment. It speaks to compatibility on multiple levels—emotional, financial, and personal.
- E is for Enemy: The most dreaded result! While it sounds dramatic, it usually points to a clash of personalities. It suggests friction, misunderstanding, and a lack of harmony. It could mean you challenge each other in difficult ways, or perhaps you're just better off keeping your distance!
- S is for Sibling: This indicates a very close, platonic bond. You might share a similar sense of humor, understand each other perfectly, and feel incredibly comfortable together, but without a romantic spark. It's a relationship of loyalty and support, much like that of a brother or sister.
Whether you get Love or Enemy, remember that FLAMES is all about having fun. The real future of any relationship is written by the choices you make, not by a game!